James 3 tells us that a man who tames his tongue is a perfect man (James 3:2). Our tongue is a small part of our body, yet it has great control. James compared it to that of a rudder on a ship-small, yet powerful. It is such a small part, but it sets our whole course for life. The way we choose to use our words can make such an impact on the wake of our life. Whether we set ourselves for smooth sailing or rocky waves is up to us.
I often take care to make sure that the decisions I make in life are on par with scripture. But if I am truly honest with myself, I know that my speech is not always congruent with my Father's teachings. James tells us that we cannot very well keep the whole man in check with out first keeping the tongue in check. I must say that this is one of life's toughest battles. How difficult is it to not join in on gossip when we agree with it? How hard can it be to remain positive in speech when we are truly wronged by others? Christ was a victim in scripture time and time again. He was ridiculed to the point of death on the cross. If we remember this, we can draw strength and perseverance from the ultimate example. Where did Jesus draw his strength from? The Father.
Ladies, let's together pledge to draw strength from the Father so that our speech may remain pure. Let our lips glorify the Lord, uplift, heal and anoint. It won't be easy but it will sure be worth it!
" With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness. 10 Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be. 11 Can both fresh water and salt water flow from the same spring? 12 My brothers and sisters, can a fig tree bear olives, or a grapevine bear figs? Neither can a salt spring produce fresh water." James 3:9-12
Ladies, what techniques do you use to handle a situation where gossip is involved?
